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“RIP you will be Missed by all that know you. ”
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“So sorry to hear of Aunt Mailen's passing! May God be with you in your time of sorrow.Love and prayers,Carole, Anbu, Menaka, and Arun Nadar ”
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“So sorry for your loss of your sweet mother. ”
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Mary Ellen DeToma, a longtime resident of Mahopac, NY passed away on Saturday December 23, 2017 at the age of 82. She was born in the Bronx on August 13, 1935, the daughter of James and Mary Neary Mullarkey.

Mary Ellen worked for many years in the telecommunications field, including NY Telephone, NYNEX and eventually retiring from Verizon in White Plains, NY.

Mary Ellen was a devout catholic and a longtime parishioner at St. John the Evangelist Church in Mahopac. She was a member of the Ladies Auxiliary of the Mahopac Falls Volunteer Fire Department and was an ex-president of the auxiliary. She was also an ex-president of the Lake Secor Property Owners Association.

She is survived by her sons, Brian of Danbury, CT and James and his wife Melaina of Mahopac; her brother Daniel Mullarkey of Florida and her sister Belinda Troncone, also of Florida as well as her beloved grandson, Dominic. She was predeceased by her husband Dominic and her daughter, Marianne.

Visitation will be held on Thursday December 28, 2017 from 2-4 & 7-9 pm at Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday December 29 at 11:30 am at St. John the Evangelist Church, Mahopac with interment to follow at Raymond Hill Cemetery in Carmel, NY.