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Karen O. Spallina

Karen O. Spallina
  • May 17, 1953 - November 9, 2017
  • Mahopac, formerly of Carmel, New York

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“We were very sorry to learn of Karen's passing.We want to offer our deepest condolences to the entire Spallina family.Florence DiPaola-KentChristian...Read More »
1 of 28 | Posted by: Florence DiPaola-Kent - Stamford, CT

“Dear Spallina Family,Our sincerest love and deepest sympathy at the loss of your wife and mother. There are really no words that I can find to...Read More »
2 of 28 | Posted by: eileen sparks - Topock, AZ

“I find it hard to express the sorrow I feel today. Karen was not only my cousin, she (and Patti) allowed me to call them my sisters. I am sure they...Read More »
3 of 28 | Posted by: eileen sparks - Topock, AZ

“I am so sorry to hear that Karen passed away. She was always lovely and charming. I extend my sincere condolences to Joe and his children and to...Read More »
4 of 28 | Posted by: Nola Tedesco Foulston - KS

“To the Othmer and Spallina families- please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of your angel Karen. She was a part of so many people's lives...Read More »
5 of 28 | Posted by: Patty Villanova - PUTNAM VALLEY, NY

“So sad to hear of her passing. Both my older boys had her in 4th grade before we moved to another district and both of them loved her. She truly...Read More »
6 of 28 | Posted by: Carrie Hernandez - Patterson, NY

“Karen was more than a teacher! She was a gift, to her students, to colleagues and to the school district she worked for - she was deeply devoted to...Read More »
7 of 28 | Posted by: Diane Frazier - Carmel, NY

“To Joe, Joey, Susie, Matt and Jill,I am so so sorry. I had no idea Karen was ill. She was my friend and funny and fun, and I have missed her since...Read More »
8 of 28 | Posted by: Cathy Nye (formally Kearney) - FL

“Dear Joe, Joey, Matt, Susie, and Jill - I am so sorry for your loss of your beautiful, wonderful and talented wife and mother. She will be so missed...Read More »
9 of 28 | Posted by: Mary Robbins - Bridgewater, NJ

“Karen was the bomb. She was funny, adorable, warm and friendly. She had a wit about her that would just make your sides split.This is a great loss...Read More »
10 of 28 | Posted by: Martha and Paul Hamel- Bronk - MA

“Joe, I am so sorry for your loss. I know that my sister Carol and Karen were such close friends. I know that she is in a much better place now for...Read More »
11 of 28 | Posted by: Robert Antrim - Rahway, NJ

“God bless. My sincere sympathy to the family especially my boyhood friend jimmy. ”
12 of 28 | Posted by: Rich O'connor - Brookfield, CT

“So sorry to hear about Karen, my heart goes out to you and your family. ”
13 of 28 | Posted by: Stephanie Rosenthal-Morales - FL

“I loved Karen's smile and laughter. We send our most sincere condolence's to her family. ”
14 of 28 | Posted by: Art and Carol Anastasio - Howell, NJ

“Dear Richie,I am so sorry to hear of your sister's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. ”
15 of 28 | Posted by: Deborah Bertin - Gouldsboro, ME

“The Board of Directors and membership of the Kent Rod & Gun Club offers heartfelt condolences. Our thoughts and prayers will be with the Spallina...Read More »
16 of 28 | Posted by: Patty Sparano - Carmel, NY

“Joey I am so very sorry, this was such a shock for me I will say prayers for you and your family love Missy ”
17 of 28 | Posted by: Missy Foscolos, Paglia - SC

“Our condolences on your loss. We send our prayers for peace and healing. ”
18 of 28 | Posted by: Gail and John Adelhardt - Stuart, FL

“With the deepest sadness Chelsea and I send our Love and Prayers. ”
19 of 28 | Posted by: Paula Beman - Roanoke, VA

“Sorry for your loss ”
20 of 28 | Posted by: Jessica Robison - Salina, KS

“Shocked and saddened to hear of Karen's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. ”
21 of 28 | Posted by: janice rossi schaus - Katonah, NY

“Knowing Karen since I was about 14 yrs old, she was more like family. My deepest sympathy to all family and friends. ”
22 of 28 | Posted by: Beth Duncan - VA - Friend

“Praying for you and your family as you grieve the loss of dear Karen. May you feel the arms of love around you from friends who care. May God grant...Read More »
23 of 28 | Posted by: Judy Brady Witherspoon - VA

“I am so sorry about your loss .. I remember Karen always bubbly and smiling... prayers for all of you during this difficult time. ”
24 of 28 | Posted by: Amy Pugliese - Mahopac, NY

“Richie so sorry to hear of the passing of your sister Karen our prayers are with you at this time of sorrow ”
25 of 28 | Posted by: Jim Barker - Mahopac, NY

“Our hearts go out to Joe and family. We remember Karen as a beautiful girl, a beautiful friend and then later a beautiful wife and mother whose...Read More »
26 of 28 | Posted by: Richard Luse - Woodcliff Lake, NJ

“Joe and Richie,very sorry to hear of Karen's passing. You and the families are in my prayers. ”
27 of 28 | Posted by: Bill Wienecke - Mahopac, NY

“So sorry for the loss of your sister Patti. Condolences to you and your family. Prayers for you and your family during this difficult time. ...Read More »
28 of 28 | Posted by: Diane Ruh-Carr - Somers, NY

Karen O. Spallina of Mahopac, NY (formerly of Carmel, NY) passed away in her home surrounded by family on November 9, 2017 at the age of 64. She was born at Mahopac Hospital on May 17, 1953, the daughter of Richard and Patricia (Conway) Othmer. Karen earned her Bachelor's degree from Monmouth University and her Master's Degree from Western Connecticut. Karen was a teacher in Dover School District from 1974-1980 and in Carmel Central School District from 1996-2015.

Karen lived her entire life in Putnam County. She was raised in Mahopac and raised her own family in Kent Cliffs. Last year, Karen moved to a new home on Lake Mahopac—footsteps from the hospital where she was born.

She will be remembered for her light-hearted spirit, her creativity, and her witty sense of humor.

Karen is survived by her husband Joseph, her mother Patricia Othmer, her children Joseph (Trishia), Matthew (Laura), Susan S. Twaddell (Oliver), and Jillian Spallina; her siblings Patti Jean Wollman (Paul), Richard Othmer, Jr. (Irene), and James Othmer (Judy); her grandchildren Elizabeth, Annabel, Carly Ann, and Savannah; as well as several nieces and nephews.

Memorial visitations are scheduled for Wednesday, November 15th from 4-8 PM, and Thursday, November 16th from 2-4 & 7-9 PM. A funeral mass will be celebrated on Friday, November 17th at 10:00 AM at Our Lady Queen of Angels Chapel in Mahopac. A private cremation was held prior to services.

Please consider making a donation in Karen's name to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

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Private Cremation Held Prior to Services